buildGraalvmNativeImage: use lib.extendMkDerivation

[philiptaron]

This additional PR continues the work you started in NixOS#413663.

• Switch to lib.extendMkDerivation
• Convert all users of buildGraalvmNativeImage to use finalAttrs style
• Simplify buildGraalvmNativeImage further after the users are converted

Things done

• Built on platform(s)
  • x86_64-linux
  • aarch64-linux
  • x86_64-darwin
  • aarch64-darwin
• For non-Linux: Is sandboxing enabled in nix.conf? (See Nix manual)
  • sandbox = relaxed
  • sandbox = true
• Tested, as applicable:
  • NixOS test(s) (look inside nixos/tests)
  • and/or package tests
  • or, for functions and "core" functionality, tests in lib/tests or pkgs/test
  • made sure NixOS tests are linked to the relevant packages
• Tested compilation of all packages that depend on this change using nix-shell -p nixpkgs-review --run "nixpkgs-review rev HEAD". Note: all changes have to be committed, also see nixpkgs-review usage
• Tested basic functionality of all binary files (usually in ./result/bin/)
• 25.05 Release Notes (or backporting 24.11 and 25.05 Release notes)
  • (Package updates) Added a release notes entry if the change is major or breaking
  • (Module updates) Added a release notes entry if the change is significant
  • (Module addition) Added a release notes entry if adding a new NixOS module
• Fits CONTRIBUTING.md.

[philiptaron]

@bengsparks

[bengsparks]

@philiptaron Thanks very much for your work 😄 I'd reviewed this PR yesterday evening, and my tooling indicated that nativeImageBuildArgs in the parameter attribute set does not get used, but I think that's just a tooling bug? Can we just double-check that?
I've built all the packages that are affected by this PR already, so everything else LGTM.

[philiptaron]

Yeah, it wasn't used, since I switched in the final commit to args.nativeImageBuildArgs to pull it out. Updated.