Prevent irrelant tags on secondaryEffect gems and support gems being saved to xml

[QuickStick123]

Description of the problem being solved:

This fixes minion stuff not being deletable off non minion skill w/ secondary stuff (mostly vaal) and similar.
Fixes replacing an active skill with a support leeching stats.

Still seems to be a few lingering problems.

1. The above fix wasn't done for stages as they are handled with a cfg and wasn't sure how to easily make one for secondary Effect this means if there is a support that adds stages vaal gems could see this tag leeching or something similar.
2. Disabling a support gem seem to still let the flags to get saved to the xml but updating any of the calculations remedies this so might not be rebuilding when it should. Calc active skill not called? As updating anything seems to fix it. Inconsistent as well.
3. Disabled skills do not seem to get rebuild and so tags remain in xml.