Implement tag sets when selecting a server

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Tags are not compatible with mode primary, and in general, only apply when selecting a secondary member of a set for a read operation. However, the nearest read mode, when combined with a tag set, selects the matching member with the lowest network latency. This member may be a primary or secondary.

See https://www.mongodb.com/docs/manual/core/read-preference-tags/#std-label-replica-set-read-preference-tag-sets