dependency updates that require Java 17

[Ladicek]

There's a couple of dependencies that we kept on a non-latest version simply because they started requiring Java 17. In the 7.0.0 release, we can bump to the latest versions, because Java 17 will be the minimum.

[rhusar]

👍🏼 this works for WF for a while now since we are on JDK 17 for a while already - https://github.com/wildfly/wildfly/blob/main/pom.xml#L122