Auto Defer Support

[Lulalaby]

Describe the request
Add support for deferring responses automatically via the config.

Example Usage
Don't have one rn

Additional context
Ref: https://discord.com/channels/743397937870143559/937498087742648373/1040320047928836146

Does this increase our chances of an iCrawl Acquisition?
No one can acquire iCrawl. iCrawl is god!