How to remove "DataGridCheckBoxColumn" highlighting when cell is focused

[TheTrueColonel]

I have a DataGrid that I'm using to display various items, one of the columns is a checkbox, and the other is just a normal textbox. The checkbox column highlights the selected cell's checkbox when given focus, and I'd prefer that it didn't. This highlighting also causes issues when a user reorders selected items using a separate button.

Here's an image of what's going on after reordering the selected item down: https://i.imgur.com/n1hGRBp.png.

I'm also using the default Fluent themes for both the application and the DataGrid.

Here's the XAML for the DataGrid:

<DataGrid Name="ModListView" Margin="20, 0, 20, 20" Background="#FF4B4B4B" ItemsSource="{Binding ModList}" SelectionChanged="ModList_OnSelectionChanged">
    <DataGrid.Columns>
        <DataGridCheckBoxColumn Header="Enabled" Width="*" Binding="{Binding Enabled}" CanUserSort="False" />
        <DataGridTextColumn Header="Mod Name" Width="2*" Binding="{Binding Name}" CanUserSort="False" IsReadOnly="True" Foreground="White" />
    </DataGrid.Columns>
</DataGrid>

Here's the code for how I'm shifting selected items down the list:

private void ModDown_OnClick(object sender, RoutedEventArgs e) {
    var viewModel = DataContext as MainWindowViewModel;
    var selection = ModListView.SelectedItems.Cast<ModInfo>().OrderBy(m => viewModel!.ModList.IndexOf(m)).ToList();

    if (viewModel == null) return;

    var limit = viewModel.ModList.Count - 1;
    foreach (var i in selection.Select(m => viewModel.ModList.IndexOf(m)).OrderByDescending(x => x)) {
        if (i < limit) {
            (viewModel.ModList[i + 1], viewModel.ModList[i]) = (viewModel.ModList[i], viewModel.ModList[i + 1]);
        } else {
            --limit;
        }
    }

    // Restore selection
    foreach (var mod in selection) {
        ModListView.SelectedItems.Add(mod);
    }
}

[timunie]

I prefer to use DataGridTemplateColumns instead of CheckBoxColumn because it gives me much more freedom about representation and behavior.