Better way to manage native libraries

[aceforeverd]

there is #239 ,
generally the goal is to reduce the size native library ( 100+ MB on Linux)

Current Status

• client java sdk (openmldb-jdbc) already striped the size @dl239
• server sdk ( e.g hybridse-native) not striped, we might need back trace

Alternative way

• build multiple native libraries, one stripped, one with debug symbol.